Thinking about your own death or that of someone important to you can be overwhelming. But like anything in life, having a plan can help us feel grounded and prepared. In this session, participants will be gently supported in contemplating and answering important end-of-life questions, including:
· What do I want the people important to me to know about my end of life?
· With whom do I want to discuss these important matters?
· What kind of medical interventions do I want and not want?
· Who would I like to make healthcare decisions for me in the event that I am unable to?
· What would I like to happen to my body after I die?
Participants will leave with a plan for having a conversation that matters, and with the experience of meaningful reflection.
Upcoming Presentations on Positive Death and Dying:
Vigil Planning: Thursday, April 25, 2-4 pm
End of Life Planning for Elder Orphans: Thursday, May 16, 2-4 pm
Both in the MacColl Room, First Presbyterian Church in Philadelphia
Russ Alexander has a passion. A passion to awaken you to what you already know: the reality that you and everyone important to you will die. And then, armed with that knowledge, to make and implement a plan. A plan to say goodbye. Goodbye to your life or the life of a person important to you. Russ began his journey in honor of his Mom, leading him to become a hospice volunteer at Penn Medicine in 2013. Then the Universe sent him down another road: train as a hospital chaplain at the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania. He completed that training in 2019. Throughout these experiences, at the bedside, he observed much suffering and fear. That led him to realize that, in order to empower people to do something about it, he needed to catch people way upstream of being discharged to hospice service or lying in an ICU bed. In 2019, he started the death doula practice, Sunset Companions, with his partner Annie Wilson, to do something about it. In 2020, he trained for death doula work with the International End of Life Doula Association (INELDA).
Annie Wilson is an INELDA-trained death doula since 2020, and a choreographer and performer in Philadelphia since 2007. As an artist, she believes dying is a creative space, and she brings the skills she developed as an artist to serve folks who are: planning for their end of life and funeral, seeking ritual support during active dying, and grieving a loss (death or other-wise). She is CARES certified in end-of-life care for dementia patients, Reiki 2 certified, and has studied with Sacred Grief, Going with Grace, The Grave Woman, and the Centre for Sacred Deathcare. Annie volunteers at Penn Medicine hospice and the PA Debt Collective. She has previously volunteered with Prevention Point after her sister and brother-in-law died of heroin overdoses. She believes there is a systemic dysfunction in how dying people and their loved ones are served, and her work as a doula is to both fill in nonmedical gaps of support and to transform the system so that those gaps no longer exist, including supporting community deathcare.
Home Instead provides non-medical health care to help people age in place safely while maintaining dignity and independence. Their local office has been serving Philadelphia for 20 years and can offer assistance with personal care, appointments, light housekeeping, laundry, shopping, and companionship.