It’s always a huge adjustment when one of the “babies” in your family is heading off to a university. You’re super excited for them, but at the same time, you’re filled with worry and fear because of this big change. With the ever-changing technology, it’s not easy to stay up-to-date with the newest trends that college students are using. As a rising senior at Temple University, and a Rhode Island native, I cherish the moments when I contact my friends and family back home and vice-versa. Despite the changing technology, you can definitely to stay in contact with your child/grandchild/niece. Here are some ways to do it effectively.

Hand written letters. I know snail mail seems completely obsolete, but in reality, it’s not. When you’re away in college, getting a hand-written letter from a family or friend shows the effort and time someone put into reaching out to you. It gives the freshman a little taste of back home, and can really brighten their day, even if they’re stressed about tomorrow’s exam.
Phone calls. It seems as if everyone in college is into the fast pace life and would rather text or email for communication, but that’s not 100% true. When the semester gets tough, and you’re missing home life, hearing the voice of a family member can calm nerves and lift spirits. Before your freshman goes off to school, ask them what their schedule is like so you know what times work best to give them a ring.
Video Chat. The majority of college students have either a phone with a camera, or a laptop with one. Just like phone calls, plan with your college freshman when they’re able to video chat or facetime you. Seeing your warm smile will help the student feel right at home.
Care packages. Depending on where your college student attends, it can be a lot harder to get needed items. Learn what others are sending, so repeated items are avoided. Often the resources on campus (like the bookstore) tend hike up the prices, which is not convenient for those who are trying to stay on a budget. Sending useful items can really help and are greatly appreciated. Send things like laundry pods, packaged snacks, various school supplies (printer ink, notebooks), cleaning supplies, and OTC medicine can help them and their wallet. There’s nothing worse than wanting to do laundry but you’re out of pods. Or when flu season hits, and you have to go to a local drug store with pricey products. One friend told me she got a list of preferred snacks from the mother of the freshman and sent them each semester. Lastly, it’s a great idea to send something that will help the student feel a sense of home like pictures or local stories of interest to them.
Facebook Messenger. Most college students use Facebook as one of their social media outlets. Even if you don’t feel like using the actual app, using the messenger is a good way to send them a note when they’re on the go.

It may feel weird with one less person at home or coming for a visit, but staying connected is very easy! Not only will the student feel happy, you will feel great, too. And seeing them during semester breaks has more meaning because you’ve stayed connected. Plan now – summer’s almost over.

Hannah Gomez is a rising senior at Temple University and a 2018 Communications Intern with Penn’s Village. Photo is of Hannah Gomez and her mother Dionne.

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